LET'S FACE IT
Particularly when you're new to town, recently separated, home with children, not having children, WFH or just ready to meet new people...
IT'S HARD MAKING FRIENDS AS AN ADULT
THE QUESTION IS
WHERE DO YOU FIND THESE NEW FRIENDS?
Chase that fabulous-looking woman down the street hollering, 'wanna be friends? 'Absolutely not! So instead, you're at home feeling a little bit miserable, pouring a little too much wine, eating a little too much junk, while watching yet another lousy show on Netflix..
THE TRIBE CHANGES ALL OF THAT!
THE TRIBE HAS BEEN DESIGNED TO HELP YOU FIND YOUR TRIBE
As it's NZ's largest women's friendship network, it's jam packed with other Kiwi gals who're keen to make new friends too. So, if you're keen to meet new people, try new things and finally get outta the house.. join other like minded Gals and Find Your Tribe.
Make More Friends
Bust the boredom blues and find your tribe in your very-own, Tribe online Communities. Jam packed with like-minded Tribe Gals - read intro posts, arrange meetups, send private messages and get your new friendships started.
Have More Fun
Keen to get out of the house? Now you can join the Tribe and choose from a variety of fun, friendship events - from boujee gals dinners, to gals movie nights, to beach walks, to ladies brunch.. you'll find loads of activities to choose.
Meet New People
Are you nervous heading along to events on your own? The Tribe changes that! All Tribe friendship events are designed to be attended solo. That's because everyone you meet, at every Tribe event, wants to meet new people too.
HAVE MORE FUN!
If you've been sitting at home for way too long, now you can have more fun!
Join the Tribe and bust the boredom blues while taking your pick from a variety of fun, 'friendship events'. From gals camping trips, to swanky dinners-out, you'll find your tribe during gals friendship events, designed to be attended solo.
Latest Tribe Events
AS SEEN
ON TV
The AM Show interviews
SARAH CLARKE
Tribe Founder
DO WE NEED A WEBSITE TO MAKE FRIENDS?
THE TRIBE
MISSION & VALUES
FIND YOUR TRIBE - FIND YOUR PEOPLE
Friendship-First
The Tribe is for any NZ woman who'd like to turn off Netflix and get more social.
Connecting
Connect online, meet offline. The Tribe uses the internet to bring us together.
Events
We're all about promoting friendship events so you can get out there, and meet new people.
Choose Your Tribe
Connect with local, like-minded women by choosing your Tribe Community.
Women-Only
Yes, we love our menfolk but we think friendship is one thing we can do without them.
Local
Tribe Gals love hanging out at local businesses! We meet local, we support local!
Solo
Tribe Events are designed to be attended solo because everyone is there to meet new people.
Empowering
We believe a womans superpower is having a tribe of women at her back.
Inclusivity
We're for any NZ Women 8-108 whose keen to meet new people and try new things.
Safety
Created by NZ women, for NZ women, the Tribe is a safe, 'friendship-first' community.
JOIN THE TRIBE COMMUNITY
It’s not hard making new friends as an adult, it’s hard finding them. The Tribe changes that.
Sarah Clarke
TRIBE FOUNDER
THINGS PEOPLE ASK US ABOUT...
FAQ's
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What is the Tribe, and who is it for?The Tribe is a friendship-focused community designed for women looking to meet new people, build meaningful connections, and enjoy social events in a relaxed, welcoming environment. Whether you’re new to town, looking to expand your circle, or just keen for fun experiences with great people—the Tribe is for you!
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How do I join an event?It’s super simple! 1️⃣ Browse upcoming events on our events page. 2️⃣ Choose an event that interests you. 3️⃣ RSVP online to secure your spot. 4️⃣ Show up & enjoy! We’ll handle the rest. All events are designed to be friendly, casual, and easy to attend solo—so no need to bring a friend. Just come as you are!
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I’m nervous about coming alone—will I feel awkward?Not at all! Most women attend solo, so you definitely won’t be the only one. Tribe events are designed to be welcoming, and our hosts are amazing at making everyone feel comfortable. If you’re feeling a little hesitant, you can: 💬 Message the event host before attending—they’ll be happy to say hi beforehand! 👋 Arrive a little early to meet others before things get started. 💛 Remember, everyone is there to meet new people too!
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How much do events cost?We’ve introduced a Pay-What-You-Like option, so you choose the amount that works for you! Some special events (like high teas or wine tastings) may have a set price, but most are flexible so everyone can join in, no matter the budget. Want to save even more? Consider a subscription for unlimited access to events at a lower cost. It’s a great option if you’re planning a full social calendar! Check out your subscription options here: https://www.findyourtribe.co.nz/memberships
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What types of events do you run?Our events are all about fun, connection, and easy conversation—with something for everyone! Some of our most popular gatherings include: ☕ Coffee catch-ups for relaxed chats 🍷 Dinners & drinks for good food & laughter 🎭 Themed nights & workshops for unique experiences 🏞️ Outdoor adventures for those who love fresh air & movement Check out what’s coming up near you: https://www.findyourtribe.co.nz/event-regions
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How Do I Become a Member?Check out your membership options here: https://www.findyourtribe.co.nz/memberships
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What does my subscription entitle me to?That depends on which level of subscription you've purchased. Benefits range from discounts on events, to unlimited friendship events each month. Alternatively you can opt for 1-off tickets to events to try before you buy. You can check out the membership options here: https://www.findyourtribe.co.nz/memberships
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Can I cancel my subscription anytime if I'm busy at work, heading away, or need a break from things?Sure can! Go here: https://www.findyourtribe.co.nz/update-membership
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Do I have to pick up a subscription to attend events?Nah. That'd be dum. If you prefer the idea of picking up a 1-off ticket, go for it! We’re actually rolling out a super-simple 'pay-what-you-like' option. That way, you can choose a price that feels right for you and still have an amazing time. You'll see ticket options on the event of your choice. Check out your event options here: https://www.findyourtribe.co.nz/event-regions
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Can I host an event?Absolutely! If you're keen to meet new people and make some lovely new friends, you'll love hosting! Even better, you'll get lots of help and support. In fact, we'll manage the whole thing for you. We'll do the promotion, let you know when the girls sign up and remind everyone as your event gets closer. You'll also get a free 6-month Tribe subscription which means you can freely RSVP to any Tribe Events that catch your eye. To get things started, here’s a quick form to apply if you’re interested: https://www.findyourtribe.co.nz/hosting-application-form
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Is this suitable for all ages?Absolutely! If you don't see any events on for gals in your age range, let's fix that by you hosting something. That way, you can meet the other gals who're in your age-range. I'll help! Apply to be a Tribe Host here: https://www.findyourtribe.co.nz/hosting-application-form
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There aren't any events on for me. What should I do?Well, you could always host your own! Hosting is free and I'll help spread the word so you've nothing more to do than sit back, relax, and be there a few minutes earlier than everyone else. Apply to be a Tribe Host here: https://www.findyourtribe.co.nz/hosting-application-form Or, you could wait n' hope someone else hosts something you'll enjoy and, in the meantime, you can cancel your membership here: https://www.findyourtribe.co.nz/update-membership
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Is hosting events free?Sure is! In fact, we'll manage the whole thing for you. We'll do the promotion, let you know when the girls sign up and remind everyone as your event gets closer. Even better, you'll get a free 6-month Tribe subscription which means you can freely RSVP to any Tribe Events that catch your eye. To get things started, apply to be a Tribe Host here: https://www.findyourtribe.co.nz/hosting-application-form
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Where's the refund policy?Here tis: https://www.findyourtribe.co.nz/refund-policy