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Making friends as an adult is hard.
The Tribe Makes It Easy.
Find Your Tribe is NZ Women's Largest Friendship Network
Helping you meet real people in real life (not just online).
If you’ve ever wished for a group of amazing women to do life with, you’ve found it!
Hi, I'm Sarah...
Tribe Founder
THE STORY BEHIND THE TRIBE
After moving to a new city, I realised how hard it was to make friends as an adult. No longer surrounded by schoolmates or university friends, I found myself asking—where do you even start?
Turns out, I wasn’t alone. So I created The Tribe—a welcoming, no-pressure space for women to meet, connect, and build real friendships.
What started as a small idea in Auckland has now grown into New Zealand’s largest women’s-only friendship community. We believe every woman deserves a circle of supportive, fun, and like-minded friends. And we’re here to help you find yours.
SARAH CLARKE ✨TRIBE FOUNDER |
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Why Women Join the Tribe
We get it-making new friends as an adult can feel awkward, intimidating, or even impossible but it doesn't have to be! Here's why thousands of women are saying 'yes' to new friends in the the Tribe:
Easy, Natural Friendships:
Meet women who actually get you-without the weird small talk.
Structured, stress-free events:
No pressure, no cliques, no awkward moments-just good times with good people.
New Adventures Every Month
From coffee catch-ups to hikes, wine nights to creative workshops—there’s something for everyone.
Real Life Connections:
We’re all about meeting in person and forming deep, meaningful friendships.
New Friends, New Experiences
30,000+ members nationwide | new events every month | no +1's, no cliques just new friends to meet!
HOW IT WORKS
1. Join the Tribe – Become a member & unlock unlimited events.
2. Pick Your Events – Choose from hundreds of gatherings near you.
3. Meet & Connect – Show up solo or with a friend—either way, you’ll feel welcome.
BONUS: You’ll also get access to private member groups, travel opportunities, and exclusive VIP events
The Tribe isn’t just about events—it’s about building a circle of friends who lift you up, cheer you on, and make life more fun.
🔹 Join for just $14.99/month – unlimited access to all events.
🔹 100% risk-free – cancel anytime, no strings attached.
🔹 Your next best friend could be one event away.
Find Your Tribe!
Friendship is every woman's superpower
Sarah Clarke
TRIBE FOUNDER
FAQ
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What is the Tribe, and who is it for?The Tribe is a friendship-focused community designed for women looking to meet new people, build meaningful connections, and enjoy social events in a relaxed, welcoming environment. Whether you’re new to town, looking to expand your circle, or just keen for fun experiences with great people—the Tribe is for you!
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How do I join an event?It’s super simple! 1️⃣ Browse upcoming events on our events page. 2️⃣ Choose an event that interests you. 3️⃣ RSVP online to secure your spot. 4️⃣ Show up & enjoy! We’ll handle the rest. All events are designed to be friendly, casual, and easy to attend solo—so no need to bring a friend. Just come as you are!
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I’m nervous about coming alone—will I feel awkward?Not at all! Most women attend solo, so you definitely won’t be the only one. Tribe events are designed to be welcoming, and our hosts are amazing at making everyone feel comfortable. If you’re feeling a little hesitant, you can: 💬 Message the event host before attending—they’ll be happy to say hi beforehand! 👋 Arrive a little early to meet others before things get started. 💛 Remember, everyone is there to meet new people too!
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How much do events cost?We’ve introduced a Pay-What-You-Like option, so you choose the amount that works for you! Some special events (like high teas or wine tastings) may have a set price, but most are flexible so everyone can join in, no matter the budget. Want to save even more? Consider a subscription for unlimited access to events at a lower cost. It’s a great option if you’re planning a full social calendar! Check out your subscription options here: https://www.findyourtribe.co.nz/memberships
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What types of events do you run?Our events are all about fun, connection, and easy conversation—with something for everyone! Some of our most popular gatherings include: ☕ Coffee catch-ups for relaxed chats 🍷 Dinners & drinks for good food & laughter 🎭 Themed nights & workshops for unique experiences 🏞️ Outdoor adventures for those who love fresh air & movement Check out what’s coming up near you: https://www.findyourtribe.co.nz/event-regions
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How Do I Become a Member?Check out your membership options here: https://www.findyourtribe.co.nz/memberships
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What does my subscription entitle me to?That depends on which level of subscription you've purchased. Benefits range from discounts on events, to unlimited friendship events each month. Alternatively you can opt for 1-off tickets to events to try before you buy. You can check out the membership options here: https://www.findyourtribe.co.nz/memberships
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Can I cancel my subscription anytime if I'm busy at work, heading away, or need a break from things?Sure can! Go here: https://www.findyourtribe.co.nz/update-membership
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Do I have to pick up a subscription to attend events?Nah. That'd be dum. If you prefer the idea of picking up a 1-off ticket, go for it! We’re actually rolling out a super-simple 'pay-what-you-like' option. That way, you can choose a price that feels right for you and still have an amazing time. You'll see ticket options on the event of your choice. Check out your event options here: https://www.findyourtribe.co.nz/event-regions
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Can I host an event?Absolutely! If you're keen to meet new people and make some lovely new friends, you'll love hosting! Even better, you'll get lots of help and support. In fact, we'll manage the whole thing for you. We'll do the promotion, let you know when the girls sign up and remind everyone as your event gets closer. You'll also get a free 6-month Tribe subscription which means you can freely RSVP to any Tribe Events that catch your eye. To get things started, here’s a quick form to apply if you’re interested: https://www.findyourtribe.co.nz/hosting-application-form
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Is this suitable for all ages?Absolutely! If you don't see any events on for gals in your age range, let's fix that by you hosting something. That way, you can meet the other gals who're in your age-range. I'll help! Apply to be a Tribe Host here: https://www.findyourtribe.co.nz/hosting-application-form
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There aren't any events on for me. What should I do?Well, you could always host your own! Hosting is free and I'll help spread the word so you've nothing more to do than sit back, relax, and be there a few minutes earlier than everyone else. Apply to be a Tribe Host here: https://www.findyourtribe.co.nz/hosting-application-form Or, you could wait n' hope someone else hosts something you'll enjoy and, in the meantime, you can cancel your membership here: https://www.findyourtribe.co.nz/update-membership
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Is hosting events free?Sure is! In fact, we'll manage the whole thing for you. We'll do the promotion, let you know when the girls sign up and remind everyone as your event gets closer. Even better, you'll get a free 6-month Tribe subscription which means you can freely RSVP to any Tribe Events that catch your eye. To get things started, apply to be a Tribe Host here: https://www.findyourtribe.co.nz/hosting-application-form
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Where's the refund policy?Here tis: https://www.findyourtribe.co.nz/refund-policy
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