ABOUT US
How it all began....
How did ‘the Tribe’ become NZ’s largest, women-only, ‘Friendship Community?
“IT’S HARD MAKING NEW FRIENDS AS AN ADULT -THE TRIBE CHANGES THAT.”
Sarah Clarke - Tribe Founder
ABOUT US
THE TRIBE WAS CREATED 8 YEARS AGO AS THE SOCIAL SOLUTION FOR ALL NZ WOMAN
All ages, all stages -
But why?
The Tribe began when Tribe Founder, Sarah Clarke, moved to Auckland for a wonderful new start. It was meant to be a sparkly city, full of bright lights, fun outings, and wonderful new friends to meet. Instead, it was the loneliest time of her life.
Because, for anyone who has ever moved somewhere new, the question is: where to start on the 'new friends-front', right?
Friday night rolls round, now what? Saturday morning dawns bright and new. Now what? Because sure, you can get out there, go for walks, & check things out, but without actually knowing people, you don't get any invites. So, aside from heading along to the movies on your own, there isn't a whole lot of social opportunities for a solo woman—let alone, meeting new women often enough for new friendships to grow.
Plus, it wasn't just her! As a private therapist, she was seeing women day-in, day-out. And guess what? They didn't have friends either. And we're not talking 'Nelly-No-Mates' sorta women here! Rather, fabulous women with awesome careers but, you guessed it, no friends. So now what?
Resolving to fix this apparent loneliness epidemic, she gave up her day job, and the Tribe began. What initially started as a cutesy little Meetup group has grown to become the nation's largest women's friendship community. Jam-packed full of Kiwi gals of all ages and all stages, with one thing in common: they're wanting to hang out, try new things, and make some lovely new friends in the process.
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Join the Tribe Community
Meet New People
Now you can bust the boredom blues and find your tribe in your very-own, Tribe Community. Jam packed with like-minded Tribe Gals who're keen to connect.
Get Connected
If you've been sitting at home and wondering how to meet new people - join the club - or, in our case, the Tribe!
Have More Fun!
Let's face it. It's hard making new friends as an adult. The Tribe changes that. Choose from a variety of friendship events ranging from brunches, to movie dates, to dancing till dawn. Best of all, Tribe Events are designed to be attended solo.
GET CONNECTED!
Meet like-minded Tribe gals via your very-own Tribe Community
Read others intro posts, arrange meetups, send private messages, or RSVP yourself along to the various friendship events on offer.
HOW THE TRIBE WORKS
With 30,000 Tribe gals nationwide, you'll find your tribe by getting out there and meeting them!
You've seen that group of girlfriends, sitting at a cafe and laughing happily amongst themselves? Or, a pair of besties solving their life's problems over a vino on the balcony? That will soon be you!
Instead of you sitting at home; miserably scrolling your newsfeed, you can find your tribe by joining the Tribe Community!
Jam packed full of local gals; you'll read everyone's introduction posts, arrange meetups, or exchange private messages. Best of all, you'll be meeting-up. Choose from a variety of fun, friendly, Friendship Events that are designed to be attended solo.
Yes, life is hard. But it's harder still without a tribe of women at your back. In fact, science tells us that loneliness is a hard on your body as smoking a packet of cigarettes a day! So, save your health, and avoid yet another boring night at home, while meeting new people and having more fun!
BECAUSE WE’RE DOING THIS TOGETHER!
DID YOU KNOW?
INTERESTING TRIBE FACTS
34,374
MEMBERS
NATIONWIDE
5980
ATTENDED TRIBE EVENTS
4094
INTRO POSTS
3084
NEW FRIENDS
Hi, I'm Sarah...
Tribe Founder
I've created the Tribe as the meeting place for NZ women, a safe space - exclusively for us.
What NZ women need in these busy, trying times, is each other. Unfortunately, we're so busy running here, there, and everywhere, we don't have the opportunity to meet new people. The Tribe changes that.
As a psychology trainer, I'm passionate about the empowerment of women. So, instead of you sitting at home and wishing you had people to hang out with, you can choose from various friendship events hosted by Tribe members, for Tribe members. You'll suddenly have a social calendar you're excited about, and a ready-made tribe of new girlfriends to meet.
Are you nervous heading along to Tribe Events on your own? Don't be. Tribe Events are designed to be attended solo because everyone you meet, at every Tribe event, is there to meet new people too.
Plus, as a Tribe member, you'll have access to various online communities. There, you'll stop with the doom scrolling and instead, connect with other local women. You can select from communities of women in your ideal friends age- range, who live nearby, or who share your interests.
As a Tribe Member you will find your tribe, find your people and have more fun!
Friendship is every woman's superpower
Sarah Clarke
TRIBE FOUNDER
FAQ
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What is the Tribe, and who is it for?The Tribe is a friendship-focused community designed for women looking to meet new people, build meaningful connections, and enjoy social events in a relaxed, welcoming environment. Whether you’re new to town, looking to expand your circle, or just keen for fun experiences with great people—the Tribe is for you!
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How do I join an event?It’s super simple! 1️⃣ Browse upcoming events on our events page. 2️⃣ Choose an event that interests you. 3️⃣ RSVP online to secure your spot. 4️⃣ Show up & enjoy! We’ll handle the rest. All events are designed to be friendly, casual, and easy to attend solo—so no need to bring a friend. Just come as you are!
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I’m nervous about coming alone—will I feel awkward?Not at all! Most women attend solo, so you definitely won’t be the only one. Tribe events are designed to be welcoming, and our hosts are amazing at making everyone feel comfortable. If you’re feeling a little hesitant, you can: 💬 Message the event host before attending—they’ll be happy to say hi beforehand! 👋 Arrive a little early to meet others before things get started. 💛 Remember, everyone is there to meet new people too!
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How much do events cost?We’ve introduced a Pay-What-You-Like option, so you choose the amount that works for you! Some special events (like high teas or wine tastings) may have a set price, but most are flexible so everyone can join in, no matter the budget. Want to save even more? Consider a subscription for unlimited access to events at a lower cost. It’s a great option if you’re planning a full social calendar! Check out your subscription options here: https://www.findyourtribe.co.nz/memberships
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What types of events do you run?Our events are all about fun, connection, and easy conversation—with something for everyone! Some of our most popular gatherings include: ☕ Coffee catch-ups for relaxed chats 🍷 Dinners & drinks for good food & laughter 🎭 Themed nights & workshops for unique experiences 🏞️ Outdoor adventures for those who love fresh air & movement Check out what’s coming up near you: https://www.findyourtribe.co.nz/event-regions
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How Do I Become a Member?Check out your membership options here: https://www.findyourtribe.co.nz/memberships
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What does my subscription entitle me to?That depends on which level of subscription you've purchased. Benefits range from discounts on events, to unlimited friendship events each month. Alternatively you can opt for 1-off tickets to events to try before you buy. You can check out the membership options here: https://www.findyourtribe.co.nz/memberships
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Can I cancel my subscription anytime if I'm busy at work, heading away, or need a break from things?Sure can! Go here: https://www.findyourtribe.co.nz/update-membership
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Do I have to pick up a subscription to attend events?Nah. That'd be dum. If you prefer the idea of picking up a 1-off ticket, go for it! We’re actually rolling out a super-simple 'pay-what-you-like' option. That way, you can choose a price that feels right for you and still have an amazing time. You'll see ticket options on the event of your choice. Check out your event options here: https://www.findyourtribe.co.nz/event-regions
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Can I host an event?Absolutely! If you're keen to meet new people and make some lovely new friends, you'll love hosting! Even better, you'll get lots of help and support. In fact, we'll manage the whole thing for you. We'll do the promotion, let you know when the girls sign up and remind everyone as your event gets closer. You'll also get a free 6-month Tribe subscription which means you can freely RSVP to any Tribe Events that catch your eye. To get things started, here’s a quick form to apply if you’re interested: https://www.findyourtribe.co.nz/hosting-application-form
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Is this suitable for all ages?Absolutely! If you don't see any events on for gals in your age range, let's fix that by you hosting something. That way, you can meet the other gals who're in your age-range. I'll help! Apply to be a Tribe Host here: https://www.findyourtribe.co.nz/hosting-application-form
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There aren't any events on for me. What should I do?Well, you could always host your own! Hosting is free and I'll help spread the word so you've nothing more to do than sit back, relax, and be there a few minutes earlier than everyone else. Apply to be a Tribe Host here: https://www.findyourtribe.co.nz/hosting-application-form Or, you could wait n' hope someone else hosts something you'll enjoy and, in the meantime, you can cancel your membership here: https://www.findyourtribe.co.nz/update-membership
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Is hosting events free?Sure is! In fact, we'll manage the whole thing for you. We'll do the promotion, let you know when the girls sign up and remind everyone as your event gets closer. Even better, you'll get a free 6-month Tribe subscription which means you can freely RSVP to any Tribe Events that catch your eye. To get things started, apply to be a Tribe Host here: https://www.findyourtribe.co.nz/hosting-application-form
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Where's the refund policy?Here tis: https://www.findyourtribe.co.nz/refund-policy